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Hi, guys. How do you do?

Have you been learning from these series? I enjoy publishing the stories, and I find them interesting, too. Hope you didn't miss the last episode? If you did, hurry over and read it before continuing with this. 

Welcome back. Episode eight is here. Let's get right into it. 

Nancita: Please introduce yourselves. 

Mr: I'm Adekunle Oketobo.

Mrs: I'm Blessing Ayomide Oketobo. 

We've been married for close to 2 years. 

Nancita: Was he/she your spec at first sight?

Mr: Yes.

Mrs: No.

Nancita: What are the non-negotiable qualities you found in your spouse?

Mr: She has a beautiful heart.

Mrs: His kindness and generosity.

Nancita: What does a kingdom marriage mean to you?

Mr: I believe a kingdom marriage implies building a home for Christ.

Mrs: Kingdom marriage is God's design and it means fulfilling God's purpose in your marriage.

Nancita: How did you become convinced that you made the right choice?

Mr: I just knew she was the missing rib.

Mrs: I had this unquestionable peace of mind.

Nancita: How did you prepare for marriage, and when did you start?

Both: By seeking marital counselling from our pastors and parents.

Nancita: How did you ask her to be your girlfriend/wife?

I asked her out on a date.

Nancita: How did you respond? Were you surprised or did you see it coming?

I saw it coming and I wasn't surprised.

Nancita: How long did you court? Describe your courtship. Did you have misunderstandings during courtship? 

Mr: 2 years 

Mrs: It was a very sweet one, love here and there. 

Nancita: How did you resolve them? 

Both: We talked about everything and anything. 

Nancita: Do you encourage pre-marriage counseling?

Both: Yes

Nancita: What resources do you recommend for courtship and marriage preparation?

Mrs: Dating articles

Nancita: What kind of wedding did you have? Was it your dream wedding?

Mr: I don't have a dream wedding, I just wanted to get married.

Mrs: It was an elaborate wedding but it wasn't my dream wedding (but close to it anyways) 

Nancita: How has married life been?

Mr: It has been amazing and interesting.

Mrs: It has been an amazing ride.

Nancita: What was your greatest culture shock?

Mr: Having someone in my space. 

Mrs: Knowing that I have to cook. I don't really enjoy cooking, but I have no choice.

Nancita: What got better when you got married?

Mr: Everything.

Mrs: All areas of my life except my social life. 

Nancita: What do you enjoy doing together the most?

Mr: Spending time together.

Mrs: Everything.

Nancita: Do you miss being single? If yes, what do you miss?

Mr: Not really.

Mrs: Hmmm maybe yes.

Nancita: What does love and submission mean to you?

Mr: Loving and caring for your wife and family. If you love and take care of your wife, she will definitely be submitted to you.

Mrs: Submission is earned by love, attention and care.

Nancita: How do you navigate challenges?

Mr: By communicating.

Mrs: By communicating and not involving a third party.

Nancita: Write a love note to her: 

Hey babe, thank you for doing forever with me. I cherish every moment with you. 

Nancita: Write a love note to him: 

Thank you for being an amazing husband; I love you till eternity. 

Nancita: What is your advice for singles and intending couples?

Mr: Marriage is sweet oo but can you forgive and forget? 

Mrs: Love is never ever enough.

Thank you. I like the emphasis on forgiveness. Indeed romantic love is never enough. There's more to marriage than the butterflies in the belly.

Once again, thank you for sharing your story with us and reading through it. Watch out for the next couple.

Love and Light,

Nancita ✨

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