Hi, guys!!!!!! It's been soooooooooooooooooo long, and I know it. It's actually been two years, two months, one week, and a day since I last wrote here, and I can explain. A whole lot happened in that time, and some things had to pipe low for a while, one of which is this blog. Unintentional, but very necessary. I'm back, and will be showing up a little differently cos I had to redefine consistency more deliberately. Let me bring you up to date with my life in the last two years. Right after my last post , I discovered I was pregnant and spent the year 2024 growing a child in my womb. Then I spent the whole of 2025 breastfeeding, caring for him, transitioning him to solids, and preparing him for weaning. All of that happened while minding my business and showing up in other areas of life. On Tuesday, he became eighteen months old, and that calls for celebration because it's a special anniversary for me. Just so you know, I'm usually...
Hi guys, welcome here. How do you do? Today, I write about something that breaks my heart, literally. In this season as a youth corper, teaching has exposed me to the enormous defect in parenting and family life. It's a lot! Sometimes I feel like there should be a license to permit childbearing, honestly. Because it might not sound good, but it's the truth. Good parenting is a big deal and not everyone can do so. My heart just breaks when I see some character displayed by students...like, do you have an actual family? Because what's this rubbish behavior?? Corper Nan has seen a lot, tbh. 😭 From disrespect, rudeness, gross misconduct, and devilish character to parents who don't even know their children. When I speak against it, I mostly hear some teachers say: that's how it is in other schools, children are now rude, blah blah. I have never agreed to that, and I never will. We've had parents come to defend their children, in the name of; 'my son is not like...