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Kingdom Marriage Series: Episode Twelve

Hi, guys. How do you do? Long time no post, right? It was beyond my control, honestly. But I'm here for the last episode in the  Kingdom Marriage series . And it's a really interesting one. Mr. and Mrs. Scott and Beatrice Eneje shared a lot with us. I admire their honesty and vulnerability and can't wait to let you in on it.  Before I leave your face, here's a reminder to catch up on the previous episodes. They are filled with many lessons you can't afford to miss. Start from episode one , then move to the next episode  and the next one till you get to the previous episode . Deal? Alright, let's hear from today's couple. Nancita: Please introduce yourselves.  Mr.:  I'm Scott Eneje. Mrs.:  I'm Beatrice Scott Eneje. We’ve been married for 3 years now. Nancita: How did you meet? Mr.: We met in college. She caught my attention in a class when she dissed me for dissing friends who were trying to find out how I was the only one to score every point in a

Chronicles of a Church Girl

Hi guys, welcome here. How do you do?  Today, I'm talking about something that occupies the right ventricle of my heart; the church of God.  I love the gathering of believers. It's not something that can be taken away from me. I'm always on the lookout for camp meetings, retreats, concerts, conferences, and what have you. Anywhere the word of God is preached soundly, that's my favorite hangout.  Not because I don't know of other events, but it's more difficult to carry my body t here. I'm learning to network outside the church now. But no matter the events I attend, the church does it the most for me when we talk about permitting friendships.  Most of the solid friendships I have today began in the churches I've attended. Even my husband had to be in the church I was attending at the time we met for me to even see him.😆😆 It's that serious. One of my friends told me one time that I wouldn't have met him if I wasn't a church girl, cos there&#

Marriage and Driving

Hi guys, long time no post, right?  No vex, jhoor.  Life has been happening and this space had to take a back seat for a while.  I'm here now. Where did we stop?  So I was somewhere one time and this argument or discussion about marriage came up between two people. One of the people said marriage is not compulsory, which I agree with. Then he went ahead to say things about the marriage institution that got me nearly infuriated.  I was still quiet though until he said: "thank God I have just boys, I'll tell them to do open marriage or have baby mamas, no need for marriage". I can't say for sure if he was serious about this statement or just playing around, but my quietness about the whole discussion came to an end. I had to speak up.  Then I told him there's nothing wrong with the marriage institution, which is true. I'm sick and tired of people making it sound like marriage is the problem. From the beginning, it never was, and never will be.  Now, imagine