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A Special Anniversary 😁

Hi, guys!!!!!!  It's been soooooooooooooooooo long, and I know it.  It's actually been two years, two months, one week, and a day since I last wrote here, and I can explain.  A whole lot happened in that time, and some things had to pipe low for a while, one of which is this blog. Unintentional, but very necessary.  I'm back, and will be showing up a little differently cos I had to redefine consistency more deliberately.  Let me bring you up to date with my life in the last two years.  Right after my last post , I discovered I was pregnant and spent the year 2024 growing a child in my womb.  Then I spent the whole of 2025  breastfeeding, caring for him, transitioning him to solids, and preparing him for weaning. All of that happened while  minding my business and showing up in other areas of life. On Tuesday, he became eighteen months old, and that calls for celebration because it's a special anniversary for me. Just so you know, I'm usually...

Chronicles of a Church Girl

Hi guys, welcome here. How do you do?  Today, I'm talking about something that occupies the right ventricle of my heart; the church of God.  I love the gathering of believers. It's not something that can be taken away from me. I'm always on the lookout for camp meetings, retreats, concerts, conferences, and what have you. Anywhere the word of God is preached soundly, that's my favorite hangout.  Not because I don't know of other events, but it's more difficult to carry my body t here. I'm learning to network outside the church now. But no matter the events I attend, the church does it the most for me when we talk about permitting friendships.  Most of the solid friendships I have today began in the churches I've attended. Even my husband had to be in the church I was attending at the time we met for me to even see him.😆😆 It's that serious. One of my friends told me one time that I wouldn't have met him if I wasn't a church girl, cos there...

Marriage and Driving

Hi guys, long time no post, right?  No vex, jhoor.  Life has been happening and this space had to take a back seat for a while.  I'm here now. Where did we stop?  So I was somewhere one time and this argument or discussion about marriage came up between two people. One of the people said marriage is not compulsory, which I agree with. Then he went ahead to say things about the marriage institution that got me nearly infuriated.  I was still quiet though until he said: "thank God I have just boys, I'll tell them to do open marriage or have baby mamas, no need for marriage". I can't say for sure if he was serious about this statement or just playing around, but my quietness about the whole discussion came to an end. I had to speak up.  Then I told him there's nothing wrong with the marriage institution, which is true. I'm sick and tired of people making it sound like marriage is the problem. From the beginning, it never was, and never will be.  Now, imag...